How to deal with peoples who think they are always right

The human nature is to fight for their piece, defend themselves, or at least convince people that their views are always right. They do it with their families, at school, at work, and at social gatherings. Arguing with these kind of persons can be frustrating. It’s best to think about what you want out of the argument before you jump into the topic. Also, find ways to help them to see your side by redirecting the conversation, and take steps to keep the situation as calm as possible.

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Don’t defend from start

• Accepting someones point of view
  is a powerful act of understanding, self-confidence, and compassion.
  It shows that you are emotionally matured.
• Let’s encourage then and ask them if they have any other opinion on this.
• Those persons will never say I don’t have another opinion because they also thinks they knows everything.
• They will put their second approach. You can get here some better solution here.

Start with a small defend

• Appreciate their both approach and try to put your approach and ask them for their opinions.
• As you appreciated those persons, somehow they will agree with your approach.
• Although they says they are always right, but it’s not mean that their approach is completely wrong.

Find the resultant approach

• Before finalizing a solution you must be aware with that problem and solution.
• Get a the conclusive solution out of all the approach and state that.
• Let them think that they are smarter, as you conclude with a mixed solution it will make them think that it’s their solutions.
• If your totally defend or you say that solution is not yours then the argument will never end. So better to finish it in a peace way.

Let’s take and example

A, B, C are three friends. A thinks he is always right and having half knowledge, B is the smarter one who knows the context. C is is also the knowledgeable person but aggressive one.

The topic is Once Kolkata was the capital of India. A didn’t agree and says it was never. B knows it was once, but B is silent. C says it was Once. They both asked for B’s opinion. He said A and C both are right, then he asked both of them that what if Mumbai becomes a capital of India. Both A and C says yes it can be as this is one of the economically strengthen city. Then again B asked what if Kolkata becomes a second capital of India. Again both agreed and says yes it would be better as this is the 2nd largest city in Asia. Then B reached at final conclusion and state that Kolkata was a capital of British India ( When India was independent) .

As Kolkata was the capital that’s why we considering this as the second capital. This solutions contains both solution that it was a capital of India and it was not a capital of India(as India also referred British India at the time).

If you become silent and get a smart way then you can handle any kind of persons.